How to make a man fall in love with you

In today's post, I'm going to tell you how to make a man fall in love with you, so prepare your favorite drink and get comfortable. Now, let's get started!

What I'm going to tell you below about how to make a man fall in love with you has nothing to do with playing games or using manipulation strategies that only lead you to achieve short-terms results.

On the contrary, it consists of showing yourself authentic, so that the man can know your true self and this will make him fall in love with you if he's the right man for you.

Now I'm going to give you ten specific tips on how to make a man fall in love with you. These ten tips will help you achieve long-term results.

Number 1: be yourself. Yes, you've probably heard this many times, but it's true. The best way to make a man fall in love with you is to be yourself, without resorting to manipulation or superficial strategies that only lead you to achieve short-term results.

A man doesn't fall in love because of what you do, but because of who you are. So don't be afraid to be authentic with him because this is what will make him fall in love with you, as long as he is the right man for you. And if he's not, he will walk away and leave room for the man of your dreams, who will love you for who you are, for your special, unique and unrepeatable way of being.

On the other hand, if you start playing games and trying to create strategies, the only thing this will do is attract men who are not right for you, usually men who will give you a lot of problems and a lot of headaches. So be yourself.

Number 2: be feminine. Men, especially masculine men, love it when a woman is feminine, because of the polarity.

If you are masculine, you will attract feminine men. And if that's what you want, that's perfect.

But if what you want is to attract a masculine man who will protect you, provide for you, and lead the relationship, then ideally you should be a feminine woman.

And this is not some superficial game or any manipulation strategy. If you truly want to be with a masculine man, that means that you are a feminine woman, even though you may not have realized it yet because perhaps you have spent many years in your masculine energy trying to survive.

There is nothing wrong with your masculine energy, but to make a man fall in love with you, it's necessary that you be in your feminine energy, due to polarity, as I have told you before, since that polarity is what creates attraction.

Number 3: show him appreciation and recognition. If there is one thing that men are looking for, especially high value masculine men, it's to be shown appreciation and recognition. This is very important for them, and a woman who knows how to appreciate them and give them recognition will be irresistible to them.

So, every time the man of your dreams does something that you liked it, thank him and appreciate what he has done. For example, if he has helped you with some mess around your house, thank him and tell him that you think what he has done is amazing. He will feel like your hero, and masculine men love to feel like heroes.

Number 4: make your time together fun. Every time you meet him, instead of talking about drama or your relationship, make him spend fun moments with you. This will make him fall in love with you because what men want is a woman who adds to them, not subtracts from them.

Play with him, go skating, dancing or bowling, and if you are more adventurous and he is too, you can go hiking on a mountain, if you have one nearby, or take a bike ride.

Number 5: encourage him to do things on his own, without you, such as meeting his friends, visiting his family or taking up a hobby. This may sound somewhat contraintuitive but it's something that works very well to make a man fall in love since something that men fear is losing his freedom.

And if you encourage him to do things on his own, without you (of course, without disrespecting you or your relationship), he will fall more in love with you because, apart from the fact that men need freedom and space for themselves (exactly like you), they also need to miss you, since men fall in love with a woman when she is absent and not when she is present.

Number 6: be in touch with your emotions and feelings. This point is very important because if you are not in touch with your emotions and feelings, this will make it more difficult for you to connect and be in touch with the man's emotions and feelings, and it will also cost him much more and he will not be able to connect with you either, nor with your emotions and feelings, and therefore he will not fall in love with you.

Number 7: do inner work. This is crucial if what you want is to have a healthy, harmonious relationship that grows and evolves with you.

Inner work, self-knowledge and personal growth are great tools to become the best version of yourself.

And if you are working to become the best version of yourself, you will not tolerate men who do not respect you and you will attract men who are also interested in becoming the best version of themselves and the man you stay with will be someone who will be interested in growing and evolving, and therefore he will not dump his insecurities or his emotional baggage on you.

Although, of course, no one is perfect, we are all learning and evolving and it's possible that there are areas in which your man has not yet managed to work on but the important thing is that he has the intention to do so, instead of blaming others or becoming the victim.

Number 8: use positive affirmations. They will be great for attracting the man of your dreams, whether you already know him or if you still don't have a face for him.

What positive affirmations do is that they reprogram your mind so you can create the reality you want.

We, human beings, are spiritual beings living a human experience and we are made in the image and likeness of God, our creator, and this make us also creators, creators of our reality.

So you can use positive affirmations to make the man of your dreams fall in love with you, telling yourself things like, for example, "Arthur and I have a very beautiful committed relationship", or "Arthur and I have a very beautiful marriage", or "Arthur loves me deeply".

And if you haven't yet met the man of your dreams, you can say "I am my husband's great love" or "I married to a wonderful masculine, high value man".

Repeat them many times, and I recommend that you say them in front of a mirror to enhance their effect.

And repeat them in your mind throughout the day over and over again. Don't stop repeating them to yourself until your desire has manifested, and even after you have achieved the manifestation, continue repeating them to yourself so that your desire remains in your life, since many people stop repeating the affirmations to themselves once their desire has manifested and what happens to many people is that they achieve the manifestation momentarily but then they immediately lose it as well.

Another important thing is that you also create positive affirmations of self-love and self-concept, since what they will also do is make your manifestation stay in your life and you will not lose it shortly after having achieved it. You can tell yourself things like "I love and accept myself unconditionally", "I'm worthy", "I am enough", "I trust myself", "I am Love" and/or "I deserve good things".

Number 9: love and respect yourself first. This is essential for a man to be able to love you and respect you too, since others are mirrors that reflect back to us what we feel about ourselves, and if you don't love and respect yourself first, you will attract men who will do nothing but giving you problems and with who you will suffer a lot.

So love and respect yourself first, and then the right man for you will too.

You can use positive affirmations to reprogram your mind so you can love and respect yourself. You can say yourself things like "I love and accept myself just the way I am", "I trust myself", "I'm worthy", "I am enough", "I respect myself" and/or "I am a confident woman".

And it's also very important that for these two things to happen, you learn to set personal boundaries. For example, don't say yes when what you really want is to say no because by saying yes to something that you don't really feel like or that you don't feel comfortable with, what you are doing is saying no to yourself.

Number 10: connect with his heart. To connect with a man's heart, you have to connect with your own first. This is like what I told you before, a man cannot love or respect you if you don't love and respect yourself first, because the Law of the Mirror.

And the same thing happens to connect with his heart.

And how do you connect with your own heart? Knowing yourself very well, learning to listen to your heart's desires and follow them because if your heart has desires it's because they can be fulfilled, you just have to believe that it's possible because, in fact, it is. For your heart, for your Higher Self, for the Universe and for God there is no desire that cannot be fulfilled or manifested.

Once you are able to connect with your own heart, you will also be able to connect with the man's heart and this will make him fall in love with you because men are only able to connect with their own heart through us.

And that's it for today's post. I hope you liked it and that it's been useful for you.