How to be a magnetic woman

In today’s post, I’m going to tell you how to be a magnetic woman, so prepare your favorite drink and get comfortable. Now, let’s get started!

But first, let’s define what a magnetic woman is. A magnetic woman is a woman who attracts everything she desires naturally and effortlessly. It’s a woman who walks into a room and everyone look at her without her having done anything in particular.

Now I’m going to give you ten keys to being a magnetic woman:

Number 1: be authentic. Yes, this may sound cliché but it’s totally true. Being authentic, being yourself, without masks or shells and without trying to pretend to be someone you are not to fit in is something incredibly magnetic.

To achieve this, you have to know yourself very well and connect with your own heart. To know yourself, there are many tools. Personally, I recommend starting with the Enneagram of Personality, which is like a kind of map or instruction manual about yourself. You will find a lot of free information on the Internet about it.

And to connect with your own heart, it’s necessary that you be in your body instead of in your mind, and that you connect with what you are feeling and with the sensations that your body gives you, since your body speaks to yoy through them. When you are aware that you are feeling a certain emotion, listen to it, feel it and let it go as it comes. Try to find out what information its is trying to give you.

You can help yourself with a journal to better understand your emotions and feelings.

Follow your true dreams, desires and passions.

You will know what they are because your heart and your soul will tell you. It’s not something that you will be able to find in a logical and rational way, using only your mind, no. You need to listen to your heart and soul, there are all the answers you are looking for.

Number 2: make others feel good in your presence. If you make this happen, people will associate you with well-being because they feel good when they are in front of you and this is very magnetic. Praise others but genuinely, encourage them to follow their dreams if they talk to you about them, make them feel special, address others by their name and generally have a positive conversation with them, in which they talk about their passions and desires. Make eye contact and smile at them. All this will make them feel very good.

And don’t do all this to make them like you, but because you truly care about them. If you just want to be magnetic to make others like you, then you are doing it from a selfish and inauthentic point of view, so it won’t have the effect you want. You have to really care about other people and want them to feel good in your presence in a genuine and selfless way. This is what will make you a magnetic woman because you will be being authentic.

Number 3: be in your feminine energy. We all, men and women, have both energies, feminine energy and masculine energy. Most women naturally have more feminine energy, and most men naturally have more masculine energy. Although of course, there may be exceptions and in fact there are women who have masculine energy as predominant and men who have feminine energy as predominant.

Feminine energy consists of being, feeling, allowing, receiving, flowing, intuiting, creating, caring, nurturing, trusting, collaborating, living in the present moment, expressing your emotions and giving importance to pleasure, among may other things. Feminine energy is incredibly magnetic, especially for masculine men. So if you want to attract a masculine man and be magnetic to him, it's very important that you are in your feminine energy.

And equally, to be magnetic with other people, not just with the man of your dreams, being in your feminine energy is your ally because it’s the energy that is connected with emotions and feelings, with the intangible and with your own heart. And how do you do it? Very simple. To start, focus on your body and look for some sensation such as tension in your shoulders, for example. Don’t try to eliminate it, just observe it with curiosity. And then, see if emotions and feelings start to arise in you, and if so, listen to what information they are trying to tell you and use it to your advantage.

A feminine woman is open, warm and receptive on the outside and with strong personal boundaries on the inside.

Number 4: don’t seek anyone’s approval. You don’t need it. Also, think that other people are nothing more than mirrors where you see yourself reflected. As Neville Goddard said, “Everyone is you pushed out”. Therefore, there is no point in seeking approval from anyone. Not from your family, not from your partners, not from your girlfriends, not from your acquaintances, not from anyone. The only approval you need is your own.

Number 5: be mysterious and maintain a private lifestyle. Mystery has always been seen as an attractive and magnetic quality. That’s why human beings like mystery tv shows and mystery novels so much. We love that they leave us wanting to know more.

Additionally, being mysterious and maintaining a private lifestyle will protect yourself and your loved ones, and allow you to live a calmer, more relaxed, and happier life.

As Aristotle said, “You are master of your silence and slave of your words”. Therefore, when you just meet someone, don’t tell them everything about you at once. Do it little by little and leave the person wanting more. This will make that person feel more and more attracted to you, want to get to know you better and become interested in you.

Number 6: focus on others instead of yourself. When you are having a conversation with someone, let that other person be the protagonist. Listen to her and ask her questions so she knows you are listening, but don’t turn the conversation into a monologue about yourself. Most people are usually self-centered and love to talk about themselves and been seen and heard, and if you are that person who allows them to talk about themselves, you will become a magnetic woman for them. Make them obsessed with themselves.

Furthermore, by letting the other person speak and not speaking as much yourself, this will create an aura of mystery around you and this is very attractive and magnetic, as I told you in the previous point.

Number 7: have a mentality of abundance and growth instead of one of scarcity and stagnation. Scarcity and stagnation vibrate at a low frequency, while abundance and growth vibrate at a high frequency. Low frequency is not attractive or magnetic, however, high frequency is.

This doesn’t mean you can’t or won’t ever have thoughts of lack and stagnation again. The key is that if you have an abundance and growth mindset, you won’t get hooked on them. You will observe them, you will understand them, you will take the information they are giving you and you will let them go as they came.

By having an abundance mentality, you will be focusing on what you do want instead of what you don’t want. And by having a growth mindset, you will be a much more pleasant and positive person. And this is highly magnetic.

Number 8: be confident. This is crucial to being a magnetic woman. Security and self-confidence are a very attractive quality. One way to instantly have security and confidence is to change your body posture. I don’t know if you know this, but your body posture greatly influences how you feel, so you can change your emotions and mood simply by changing your body posture.

Do a little test right now. Stand with your shoulders hunched, head down, without a smile, looking at the ground and with your hands in your pockets. What do you feel? You probably feel insecurity, hopelessness and, in general, unpleasant emotions.

Now change your posture. Stand up straight, put your shoulders back, keep your chest slightly elevated, put your hands on the sides of your body or on your waist, raise your head and smile. I’m sure your feel better than before. This last body posture that I just told you is that of a person with security and self-confidence. So practice it as much as you need it until it becomes part of you.

At the same time, you can also work on your mind by having positive internal dialogue and telling yourself things like “I trust myself”, “I trust my intuition”, or “I am worthy”.

Number 9: love yourself. Like the previous point, this is also crucial. Well, in fact, all the keys that I’m giving you are crucial to being a magnetic woman, but self-love is especially important because if you don’t love yourself, you won’t be able to love others and they will perceive this on an unconscious level because of the vibe you emanate and therefore you will only attract people who only want to take advantage of you. And this does not suit you.

Love yourself as you are right now, with your virtues and your defects. Accept them and love them too, and in this way you will be able to love and accept both the virtues and the defects of others, and others will perceive this and open themselves to you because they will feel that you will understand them and that you will not judge them.

Number 10: use positive affirmations. I have already talked a little about them in key number eight. If you want to be a magnetic woman, a great way to achieve this is by using positive affirmations, in which you tell yourself things over and over again, for example, “I am a magnetic woman”, “I am a magnet for everything that I desire” or “I attract wonderful people”. You can tell yourself these affirmations that I just told you or create your own. I recommend that you say them in front of the mirror because it’s much more powerful.

By reprogramming your mind, this will cause your thoughts and beliefs to begin to change, and therefore, your emotions and feelings will also change, and your actions will therefore be different, they will be those of a magnetic woman (loving yourself, respect yourself, not seek the approval of others, be authentic, feel that you deserve everything good, feel that you are abundant, and so on), and therefore, you will get the results that you want.

And that’s it. I hope you liked it and that it’s been useful for you.